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People often say that this or that person has not yet found himself. Discount benicar
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Remember when the hippy dippy girl with the dreads was the only one dashing off to Indonesia to ‘find herself?’

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Self fulfillment never comes after looking in the mirror and finally realizing you’re a raging narcissist.

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Take care of yourself before you take care of others! You! You! You! It’s all about you!”

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The only thing continuous introspection has taught them is they’re not particularly lovable in the first place. Discount benicar

And spending every waking moment of their life in a sad attempt to create the image of prosperity with ultimately meaningless status symbols ultimately makes them feel empty and alone.

So what should they do?

Lose weight?

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Buy a bigger house or a nicer car?

Secure a spot on a reality TV show and pursue fame and fortune? What will finally make people happy?

Where oh where can they possibly find a little self respect?

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The Self Esteem Police have always had it totally backwards. Discount benicar

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This world is shit and there is no shortage of places to make an impact.

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Every single person on this planet should being volunteering for something. Discount benicar

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The whole world is not about me. Discount benicar

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Look outward and your innards will work themselves out.
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