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The private war of women soldiers By Helen Benedict (http://www.salon.com/news/feature/2007/03/07/women_in_military/?source=rss)  Many female soldiers say they are sexually assaulted by their male comrades and can't trust the military to protect them. Find cheap rumalaya "The knife wasn't for the Iraqis, find cheap rumalaya" says one woman. Find cheap rumalaya "It was for the guys on my own side." As thousands of burned-out soldiers prepare to return to Iraq to fill President Bush's unwelcome call for at least 20, find cheap rumalaya000 more troops, find cheap rumalaya I can't help wondering what the women among those troops will have to face. Find cheap rumalaya And I don't mean only the hardships of war, find cheap rumalaya the killing of civilians, find cheap rumalaya the bombs and mortars, find cheap rumalaya the heat and sleeplessness and fear. Find cheap rumalaya I mean from their own comrades -- the men. Find cheap rumalaya I have talked to more than 20 female veterans of the Iraq war in the past few months, find cheap rumalaya interviewing them for up to 10 hours each for a book I am writing on the topic, find cheap rumalaya and every one of them said the danger of rape by other soldiers is so widely recognized in Iraq that their officers routinely told them not to go to the latrines or showers without another woman for protection. Find cheap rumalaya The female soldiers who were at Camp Arifjan in Kuwait, find cheap rumalaya for example, find cheap rumalaya where U.S. Find cheap rumalaya troops go to demobilize, find cheap rumalaya told me they were warned not to go out at night alone. Find cheap rumalaya "They call Camp Arifjan 'generator city' because it's so loud with generators that even if a woman screams she can't be heard, find cheap rumalaya" said Abbie Pickett, find cheap rumalaya 24, find cheap rumalaya a specialist with the 229th Combat Support Engineering Company who spent 15 months in Iraq from 2004-05. Find cheap rumalaya Yet, find cheap rumalaya she points out, find cheap rumalaya this is a base, find cheap rumalaya where soldiers are supposed to be safe. Find cheap rumalaya Spc. Find cheap rumalaya Mickiela Montoya, find cheap rumalaya 21, find cheap rumalaya who was in Iraq with the National Guard in 2005, find cheap rumalaya took to carrying a knife with her at all times. Find cheap rumalaya "The knife wasn't for the Iraqis, find cheap rumalaya" she told me. Find cheap rumalaya "It was for the guys on my own side." Comprehensive statistics on the sexual assault of female soldiers in Iraq have not been collected, find cheap rumalaya but early numbers revealed a problem so bad that former Defense Secretary Donald H. Find cheap rumalaya Rumsfeld ordered a task force in 2004 to investigate. Find cheap rumalaya As a result, find cheap rumalaya the Defense Department put up a Web site in 2005 designed to clarify that sexual assault is illegal and to help women report it. Find cheap rumalaya It also initiated required classes on sexual assault and harassment. Find cheap rumalaya The military's definition of sexual assault includes "rape; nonconsensual sodomy; unwanted inappropriate sexual contact or fondling; or attempts to commit these acts." Unfortunately, find cheap rumalaya with a greater number of women serving in Iraq than ever before, find cheap rumalaya these measures are not keeping women safe. Find cheap rumalaya When you add in the high numbers of war-wrecked soldiers being redeployed, find cheap rumalaya and the fact that the military is waiving criminal and violent records for more than one in 10 new Army recruits, find cheap rumalaya the picture for women looks bleak indeed. Find cheap rumalaya Last year, find cheap rumalaya Col. Find cheap rumalaya Janis Karpinski caused a stir by publicly reporting that in 2003, find cheap rumalaya three female soldiers had died of dehydration in Iraq, find cheap rumalaya which can get up to 126 degrees in the summer, find cheap rumalaya because they refused to drink liquids late in the day. Find cheap rumalaya They were afraid of being raped by male soldiers if they walked to the latrines after dark. Find cheap rumalaya The Army has called her charges unsubstantiated, find cheap rumalaya but Karpinski told me she sticks by them. Find cheap rumalaya (Karpinski has been a figure of controversy in the military ever since she was demoted from brigadier general for her role as commander of Abu Ghraib. Find cheap rumalaya As the highest-ranking official to lose her job over the torture scandal, find cheap rumalaya she claims she was scapegoated, find cheap rumalaya and has become an outspoken critic of the military's treatment of women. Find cheap rumalaya In turn, find cheap rumalaya the Army has accused her of sour grapes.) "I sat right there when the doctor briefing that information said these women had died in their cots, find cheap rumalaya" Karpinski told me. Find cheap rumalaya "I also heard the deputy commander tell him not to say anything about it because that would bring attention to the problem." The latrines were far away and unlit, find cheap rumalaya she explained, find cheap rumalaya and male soldiers were jumping women who went to them at night, find cheap rumalaya dragging them into the Port-a-Johns, find cheap rumalaya and raping or abusing them. Find cheap rumalaya "In that heat, find cheap rumalaya if you don't hydrate for as many hours as you've been out on duty, find cheap rumalaya day after day, find cheap rumalaya you can die." She said the deaths were reported as non-hostile fatalities, find cheap rumalaya with no further explanation. Find cheap rumalaya Not everyone realizes how different the Iraq war is for women than any other American war in history. Find cheap rumalaya More than 160, find cheap rumalaya500 American female soldiers have served in Iraq, find cheap rumalaya Afghanistan and the Middle East since the war began in 2003, find cheap rumalaya which means one in seven soldiers is a woman. 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Find cheap rumalaya "We were interchangeable with the infantry. Find cheap rumalaya They came to our police stations and helped pull security, find cheap rumalaya and we helped them search houses and search people. Find cheap rumalaya That's how it is in Iraq." Women are fighting in ground combat because there is no choice. Find cheap rumalaya This is a war with no front lines or safe zones, find cheap rumalaya no hiding from in-flying mortars, find cheap rumalaya car and roadside bombs, find cheap rumalaya and not enough soldiers. Find cheap rumalaya As a result, find cheap rumalaya women are coming home with missing limbs, find cheap rumalaya mutilating wounds and severe trauma, find cheap rumalaya just like the men. Find cheap rumalaya All the women I interviewed held dangerous jobs in Iraq. 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Find cheap rumalaya They were a serious problem for the Women's Army Corps in Vietnam, find cheap rumalaya and the rapes and sexual hounding of Navy women at Tailhook in 1991 and of Army women at Aberdeen in 1996 became national news. Find cheap rumalaya A 2003 survey of female veterans from Vietnam through the first Gulf War found that 30 percent said they were raped in the military. Find cheap rumalaya A 2004 study of veterans from Vietnam and all the wars since, find cheap rumalaya who were seeking help for post-traumatic stress disorder, find cheap rumalaya found that 71 percent of the women said they were sexually assaulted or raped while in the military. Find cheap rumalaya And in a third study, find cheap rumalaya conducted in 1992-93 with female veterans of the Gulf War and earlier wars, find cheap rumalaya 90 percent said they had been sexually harassed in the military, find cheap rumalaya which means anything from being pressured for sex to being relentlessly teased and stared at. Find cheap rumalaya "That's one of the things I hated the most, find cheap rumalaya" said Caryle García, find cheap rumalaya 24, find cheap rumalaya who, find cheap rumalaya like Naylor, find cheap rumalaya served with the Combat Military Police in Baghdad from 2003-04. Find cheap rumalaya García was wounded by a roadside bomb, find cheap rumalaya which knocked her unconscious and filled her with shrapnel. Find cheap rumalaya "You walk into the chow hall and there's a bunch of guys who just stop eating and stare at you. Find cheap rumalaya Every time you bend down, find cheap rumalaya somebody will say something. Find cheap rumalaya It got to the point where I was afraid to walk past certain people because I didn't want to hear their comments. Find cheap rumalaya It really gets you down." "There are only three kinds of female the men let you be in the military: a bitch, find cheap rumalaya a ho or a dyke, find cheap rumalaya" said Montoya, find cheap rumalaya the soldier who carried a knife for protection. Find cheap rumalaya "This guy out there, find cheap rumalaya he told me he thinks the military sends women over to give the guys eye candy to keep them sane. Find cheap rumalaya He said in Vietnam they had prostitutes to keep them from going crazy, find cheap rumalaya but they don't have those in Iraq. Find cheap rumalaya So they have women soldiers instead." Pickett heard the same attitude from her fellow soldiers. Find cheap rumalaya "My engineering company was in the first Gulf War, find cheap rumalaya and back then it had only two females, find cheap rumalaya" she said. 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Find cheap rumalaya You're gonna be a loner until they eventually push you out." Spranger and several other women told me the military climate is so severe on whistle-blowers that even they regarded the women who reported rape as incapable traitors. Find cheap rumalaya You have to handle it on your own and shut up, find cheap rumalaya is how they saw it. Find cheap rumalaya Only on their return home, find cheap rumalaya with time and distance, find cheap rumalaya did they become outraged at how much sexual persecution of women goes on. Find cheap rumalaya Having the courage to report a rape is difficult enough for civilians, find cheap rumalaya where unsympathetic police, find cheap rumalaya victim-blaming myths, find cheap rumalaya and simple fear prevent 59 percent of rapes from being reported, find cheap rumalaya according to the U.S. Find cheap rumalaya Bureau of Justice. Find cheap rumalaya But within the military, find cheap rumalaya reporting is even more risky. 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Find cheap rumalaya It won't go so far as to actually gather statistics on rape and assault in Iraq (it only counts reported rapes in raw numbers for all combat areas in the Middle East combined), find cheap rumalaya but in 2006 the DOD did finally wake up to the idea that anonymous reporting might help women come forward, find cheap rumalaya and updated its Web site accordingly. Find cheap rumalaya The Web site looks good, find cheap rumalaya although some may object that it seems to pay more attention to telling women how to avoid an assault than telling men not to commit one. Find cheap rumalaya It defines rape, find cheap rumalaya sexual assault and harassment, find cheap rumalaya and makes clear that these behaviors are illegal. Find cheap rumalaya The site now also explains that a soldier can report a rape anonymously to a special department, find cheap rumalaya SAPR (Sexual Assault Prevention and Response), find cheap rumalaya without triggering an official investigation -- a procedure called "restricted reporting." And it promises the soldier a victim's advocate and medical care. Find cheap rumalaya On closer scrutiny, find cheap rumalaya however, find cheap rumalaya the picture is less rosy: Only active and federal duty soldiers can go to SAPR for help, find cheap rumalaya which means that neither inactive reservists nor veterans are eligible; soldiers are encouraged to report rapes to a chaplain, find cheap rumalaya and chaplains are not trained as rape counselors; if soldiers tell a friend about an assault, find cheap rumalaya that friend is legally obliged to report it to officials; soldiers must disclose their rank, find cheap rumalaya gender, find cheap rumalaya age, find cheap rumalaya race, find cheap rumalaya service, find cheap rumalaya and the date, find cheap rumalaya time and/or location of the assault, find cheap rumalaya which in the closed world of a military unit hardly amounts to anonymity; and, find cheap rumalaya in practice, find cheap rumalaya since most people in the Army are men, find cheap rumalaya the soldier will likely find herself reporting her sexual assault to a man -- something rape counselors know does not work. Find cheap rumalaya Worse, find cheap rumalaya no measures will be taken against the accused assailant unless the victim agrees to stop being anonymous. Find cheap rumalaya The DOD insists on the success of its reforms, find cheap rumalaya the proof being that the number of reported military sexual assaults rose by 1, find cheap rumalaya700 from 2004 to a total of 2, find cheap rumalaya374 in 2005. Find cheap rumalaya "The success of the SAPR program is in direct correlation with the increased numbers of reported sexual assaults, find cheap rumalaya" Cynthia Smith, find cheap rumalaya a Defense Department spokeswoman, find cheap rumalaya wrote to me in an e-mail. Find cheap rumalaya In fact, find cheap rumalaya as anyone familiar with sexual assault statistics knows, find cheap rumalaya nobody can ever tell whether increases in rape rates are due to more reporting or more rapes. Find cheap rumalaya My own interviewees and advocates on behalf of women veterans say these reforms are not working. Find cheap rumalaya They say there is a huge gap between what the military promises to do on its Web site and what it does in practice, find cheap rumalaya and that the traditional view that reporting an assault betrays your fellow soldiers still prevails. Find cheap rumalaya "Are soldiers who report sexual assaults in the military still seen as betraying their comrades?" I asked Smith. Find cheap rumalaya "Our soldiers are being fully trained that sexual assault is the most under-reported crime, find cheap rumalaya" she wrote in reply. Find cheap rumalaya "In that training, find cheap rumalaya not reporting a sexual assault is the betrayal to their comrades." 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Find cheap rumalaya But those who have been sexually assaulted also lose their self-respect, find cheap rumalaya feel they have lost control over their lives, find cheap rumalaya and are particularly prone to self-destruction. Find cheap rumalaya I have yet to meet an Iraq war veteran of either sex who does not suffer from some form of post-traumatic stress disorder, find cheap rumalaya but officially the number of Iraq veterans with PTSD is estimated to be about 30 percent for those newly back from war, find cheap rumalaya according to a 2004 study of combat veterans in the New England Journal of Medicine. Find cheap rumalaya The extent and severity of PTSD in women who have had to cope with both combat and sexual assault in Iraq is still being studied, find cheap rumalaya but as it is known that these are two of the highest predictors of PTSD, find cheap rumalaya it is logical to assume that the combination is pretty bad. 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