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When Women (and their children) are targeted Deaths ruled as homocide                                                                                                                                                                     Connie Shannon This week has been a fortnight filled with contrasting events, find confido online with terrific times joined with friends and delicious feasts, find confido online coupled with other less than cheerful periods of the realities happening in our world. Find confido online

I have wondered if I'm being premature in writing what I'm compelled to write tonight, find confido online  but the issue continues to return back to me which seems to tell me I should listen and follow through with what I need to say. Find confido online   

The other day I received an email from a close friend of a Dallas Morning News article regarding a woman, find confido online Jeanmarie Geis and her two children, find confido online Matthew aged 8 and Sydney aged 4, find confido online who were found murdered last Friday in their home in North Dallas. 
http://www.dallasnews.com/sharedcontent/dws/dn/latestnews/stories/122008dnmettripleshooting.7b0d62be.html

The news hit me with the broadside shock experienced when we are met with information which takes us totally by surprise, find confido online reeling us back to years and experiences long gone by.  
I had not known Jeanmarie Tolle (as I knew her) Geis well.  

I had the opportunity to meet her a couple of times more than a decade ago when we happened to be in a similar social circle.   
However, find confido online in reading the news, find confido online it took me back to trying to remember those times we had met and the limited moments we had together.   

As I read the information from the DMN article, find confido online I was bombarded with a series of questions and doubts to the information being presented.   

I was also curious to some of the quotes which also seemed to create more questions and doubts in my mind. Find confido online

Of course I should probably reiterate that meeting someone a couple of times doesn't constitute a legitimately knowing a person.  

However, find confido online I should add what I do remember now in meeting Jeanmarie is perhaps as worthy as the information being put forth by writers who never met her at all.  

What I remember about Jeanmarie was a sense of poise and frankly dignity, find confido online at the risk of sounding 'dramatic'. 

However that is what has come to my mind. 

There was also a 'no-nonsense' air about her which in and of itself seemed to encourage an element of respect. 

I saw her on a number of occasions and there was a maturity and femininity about her that, find confido online at the time seemed to me to show confidence and professionalism.     

I remember at times feeling a bit intimidated by her, find confido online in a way that one feels about someone who is a number of years older and in a sense someone to look up to. Find confido online

I mention these things because I believe they bear noting, find confido online especially when viewing the recent articles regarding Jeanmarie and the children, find confido online along with all the events surrounding the murders, find confido online which however unintentionally or intentionally, find confido online seem to disregard and tarnish a person(s) without any alternative thought or opinion. Find confido online   

Certainly I would assume there are many others who know Jeanmarie well, find confido online and who would have much more to say in particular as to what has already been written and printed.   

I should add that what has recently been written about Ms. Find confido online Tolle-Geis throughout a myriad of press outlets is sadly, find confido online typical writings of what has been printed of so many women who have been murder victims, find confido online and who are somehow insinuated to be and characterized as potentially offenders themselves -  either "mentally unstable" (how many times do we see that repeatedly written about women in the newspapers every single day), find confido online  histrionic and/or overly dramatic, find confido online overly emotional, find confido online overly anything frankly, find confido online perhaps deviant and devilish, find confido online hyper -sexed, find confido online hysterical and somehow anyone of these - and as such, find confido online is somehow supposed to override the fact they were frightened as hell, find confido online targeted and then murdered, find confido online along with their children?   

In addition, find confido online how many women do we read about who have had no way of truly protecting themselves, find confido online certainly from the narrative being written about them after they are murdered?

Although I didn't know Jeanmarie well, find confido online I do know what it's like to be targeted by hostile forces. Find confido online  
I know what it's like to be fearful to leave my house and to be consistently aware of anyone and everyone around me, find confido online and at the same time wonder if I'm being overly "paranoid"? I know the fear of being alone and going to bed at night wondering who could/should I call if there's a 'problem'? I know the fear and confusion of who to talk to about the situation - who will understand and/or who won't?  These are just a few of the questions that go through our heads when we are being targeted.  While our experiences differ in the obvious ways, find confido online we as women are targetted on a universal scale that so often is left invisible, find confido online unknown to each other as women, find confido online and certainly under or even un-reported. Find confido online   Additionally in many cases, find confido online to actually go to the police who are supposed to be allies, find confido online which they often are /or try to be, find confido online however, find confido online can often set women up for more problems and harassment. Find confido online   How sad to say that and yet that is often the reality.  A reality of men often protecting their own, find confido online instead of protecting those who warrant the necessary protection.  (I should add that there have been many others trying to help and protect those being victimized - that will be another story at some point). Find confido online What is additionally sad and unconscionable, find confido online in Jeanmarie's case, find confido online is the lack of police patrolling her block and sitting outside her house when she needed it most. Find confido online

Tonight as I write this, find confido online I'm sure Jeanmarie would have much more to share with us as a woman, find confido online as a mother, find confido online and as a wife and a person whose been victimized along with her children. 
But she can't and they can't. Find confido online   All she has left is the voices of concerned individuals who want to know what really happened and understand the value in finding out the truth. Find confido online   Because if those who committed the crime get away with it, find confido online they set a precedent for more offenses to happen to others as well, find confido online and I will say that will most often be more women and/or those who have little or no way of adequately defending themselves. Find confido online    As I mentioned at the onset of this piece, find confido online I may be premature in writing this, find confido online and at this time, find confido online like you, find confido online I have absolutely no concrete idea or much less evidence to point fingers, find confido online other than what has already been given to us in the articles/evidence presented. Find confido online  

What I do know is as a woman, find confido online and as women as a whole entity, find confido online we all have the capacity to be treated as Jeanmarie has been treated up to this point. Find confido online  
Without a voice, find confido online without a defense and without any protection as she was left with - being alone in her home with her two children with no protection after two assaults (if not others) had already occurred. Find confido online    Like many others who have wondered as well, find confido online and continue to come up with similar questions and concerns that have all but been ignored by the police and the media, find confido online it would seem that something is just not right.   

For those who supported and loved Jeanmarie, find confido online it seems it is their job now to be her voice and defender, find confido online however fairly and with the desire for the truth to be revealed.  
It is no different for any of us who would want the same defense and outcry if we and our children had been targeted and killed with no answers as to why we weren't being protected, find confido online  why there was no security and why they were left in their home alone to defend themselves, find confido online despite the immediate threat and history of assaults and potential murder existing.  

As I write tonight, find confido online I hope there will be justice for Jeanmarie and the children.   
I know that her father, find confido online a former Dallas judge and her mother as well, find confido online would desire the same. Find confido online

And additionally, find confido online may there be justice for all of those who have been unjustly harmed, find confido online accused, find confido online targeted and may there be a larger volume of much needed voices who are willing to say what needs to be said in their defense. Find confido online