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Where have all the Shannon’s gone?

http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3093/2724031099_6c8eedbe80.jpg?v=0 CONNIE SHANNON A year ago August, find tenormin I decided to return to Dallas for a Family Reunion. It was a decision I wouldn’t make until a week before the reunion was planned. I remember being outside on my back deck a week before and feeling a strong nudge from somewhere out there that I should go back, find tenormin  suit up and show up for my parents, find tenormin who are both deceased and who would have wanted me to make the trip. As well I felt a need and desire to represent the Shannon side of the family, find tenormin which is rather slim in number. Looking back a year later, find tenormin if not before, find tenormin I am aware of how significant that trip was for me to take. I received much clarity from my weekend back in Big D. It had been quite a while since I had returned, find tenormin other than a couple of days a few months before in route a vacation to Mexico. I had my reasons for not returning, find tenormin due to some situations with a couple of family members, find tenormin but I concluded now was an appropriate time to head back and hopefully reconnect and mend some rather tethered fences. When I returned home and saw my brother at the airport, find tenormin it was a welcomed sight and immediately comfortable. My brother can make me laugh easier than anyone can. I reacclimated to the surroundings and my roots with each familiar face I saw. Find tenormin   I appreciated how much I had missed my family and was grateful to be back and seeing old surroundings again. I had been missed too.  I was back home.  It felt good. At the same time I knew I was falling back into that world all too fast and easily. Find tenormin That weekend, find tenormin I saw my Waco cousins whom I revere for many reasons and who are always so warm and lovely in all senses of the word.  And perhaps more than anything, find tenormin I had the opportunity to see my precious nieces and nephews who had grown leaps and bounds since I’d last seen them, find tenormin and who I miss more than I can ever adequately express. The Reunion parties themselves were terrific as I knew they were going to be.  My sister in law Sarah Jane and her gift of creating amazing displays of food was its usual sight for sore eyes, find tenormin and all in all it was a chance to have some face time with family members I hadn’t seen in years (literally), find tenormin  some cousins of whom I had never even met, find tenormin who had grown into lovely young grown ups. We also all made it to lunch at my nephew’s famous burger restaurant close to SMU which has been a great success. As lovely as everything was, find tenormin and as nice and important it was to see everyone, find tenormin  one of the problematic ‘elephants’ had stationed itself on the family reunion route and was not to be ignored during the weekend. The ‘elephant’ involves a situation which was spawned over 6 years ago, find tenormin when my brother contacted me here in Los Angeles, find tenormin rather out of the blue, find tenormin to sign a document which involved and allowed the transmittal of my entire Shannon family from Restland to Sparkman Hillcrest Cemetary. The reason was due to the fact my oldest (half) brother had come up with the idea, find tenormin and decision, find tenormin of  effectively bringing all families together in one unified space at Sparkman-Hillcrest. I remember at the time not understanding why such a move was necessary, find tenormin or quite honestly, find tenormin very  respectful of the choice my Grandfather Shannon made in purchasing property at Restland for his family.   Not to mention how other  deceased relatives from other families might feel being uprooted, find tenormin so to speak. Additionally I had a sentimental attachment to Restland and more specifically the place where my relatives, find tenormin including my father, find tenormin had been buried. Find tenormin I had not known my Aunt Connie, find tenormin who I was named after, find tenormin or my Grandmother Cora, find tenormin and it gave me a place to come and in my way connect with where I came from. When I lived in Dallas, find tenormin I visited Restland at least twice a year. The Shannons were buried next to the Wildwood Chapel where I remember my Grandfather’s service took place, find tenormin and is pictured above. In the end, find tenormin largely due to the fact I was no longer living there, find tenormin and perhaps more importantly not to ignite what would have become a confrontation with my brothers, find tenormin  I signed the Agreement to have the Shannon family transferred. Six years later (or five and a half), find tenormin I found myself at the Sparkman Hillcrest cemetary, find tenormin where all the families were buried. After we had arrived and viewed the areas where the Leachman relatives had been buried, find tenormin I, find tenormin obviously, find tenormin  wondered and was anxious to see where the Shannons were buried, find tenormin especially because there had been the push to move them there years back. I asked my brother Jim where they were located. He took me across the street to a significantly smaller area than where  they were previously placed at Restland and I didn’t see them, find tenormin until I observed small, find tenormin round cannisters with the words “Shannon” typed or written on the top of them. There were no markers or gravestones. There was nothing really. Well, find tenormin the Shannon family was ‘present’, find tenormin at least in terms of the transferral. This included my Grandfather Shannon, find tenormin my Grandmother Shannon/Walsen, find tenormin my Aunt Connie, find tenormin and my Father and still born twins which I have always assumed came from my father’s previous marriage, find tenormin but I cannot confirm. However, find tenormin nobody else, find tenormin including myself, find tenormin would have ever known any Shannons, find tenormin or anybody was buried there, find tenormin unless I had asked my brother Jim, find tenormin who was the one who originated the idea  the transferral of the Shannons from Restland to Sparkman. The Shannon family was moved over six years ago. To this day nothing has been done to respectfully and adequately represent my family. Some months back I wrote to my brother Manning about it, find tenormin after much hesitancy. I went back last February to Sparkman Hillcrest when I was in town to see friends from high school. It was then that I couldn’t even find the cannister tops of my famlie’s ashes. It was only grass now. I was angry. It was a level of disrespect, find tenormin which is frankly why I am compelled to write today. I lost my father when I was nineteen. I was a sophomore in college when he died.   I remember his service at the Highland Park United Methodist Church.   The main Chapel was completely full, find tenormin including the balcony, find tenormin for my father’s service.   My Father and my Grandfather had many friends. He was a gentle, find tenormin wonderful man, find tenormin who had his shortcomings as we all do. My father was a surgeon (and an artist) who interestingly received the Bronze Star during World War II when he was a young doctor in the Phillipines.  He never mentioned this to me or my brother when he was alive.   The medal was found in his press after he died. My grandfather, find tenormin Manning Sr. Find tenormin was an early Dallas businessman and an overall lover of life. Find tenormin   He was the oldest living presidents of the Idlewild Club.  He lived to be 105, find tenormin loved his afternoon bloody Marys, find tenormin good conversation, find tenormin to watch ‘his’ birds at the feeders in his back yard, find tenormin and a street in Highland Park, find tenormin Shannon Lane, find tenormin was named after him.   I can honestly say my grandfather truly was liked, find tenormin and loved by everyone who knew him.  He was a special person. My Aunt Connie who I mentioned I was named after, find tenormin I, find tenormin unfortunately, find tenormin never had the opportunity to meet. She died before I arrived into the world. She had been a Dallas Idlewild Debutante and graduate of Sarah Lawrence. She married an Art Director by the name of John Detlie (correction made*) in Los Angeles, find tenormin who rather abruptly divorced her after three years to then marry Veronica Lake, find tenormin who he met while working on a film.  Connie apparently moved back to Dallas and lived out the remainder of her life there.  Back at the Sparkman cemetary during the Reunion weekend I remember standing across the street trying to understand what felt humiliating in for my family being a “family reunion”.   It didn’t make sense. Find tenormin My brother Charles stood by me that day I remember.  I believe he understood.     Flash forward to today. A year later.   I’ve heard nothing. When I contacted my brother Manning as to details he gave no adequate explanations really. Additionally the request he made for me to pay for new gravestones left me a bit perplexed not to mention numb, find tenormin being that the intitial choices two of my brothers created, find tenormin in my opinion should never have occurred. We still have the burial places at Restland, find tenormin where I believe the Shannon family should now be returned to their rightful place by the Wildwood Chapel and respected for the choice my Grandfather Shannon orignally made and paid, find tenormin for so he could fulfill his duty as family guardian with pride and confidence in knowing his family would be able to rest comfortably and in a quiet, find tenormin lovely setting.  One of my brothers told me it doesn’t matter to them where they are after they die. And I would say to my brother, find tenormin that if it didn’t matter to our Grandfather where they are after they die, find tenormin why then would he invest his money and time and investment to create a place for his family to be after they die?   Additionally why then were you and my other sibling concerned about bringing the family together, find tenormin when you haven’t created an adequate place for the Shannons, find tenormin after six years? It seems an official request is necessary now, find tenormin after almost seven years and after other requests have been made to both of my brothers.  Here again, find tenormin is my request.  A mistake has clearly been made, find tenormin at the expense of my family’s legacy, find tenormin the Shannon legacy.  It’s time to amend the mistake that has been made, find tenormin and to make it right.  Revisions have been made since the original posting.